Are you looking for love? It’s probably the number one question that readers and helpers and healers get. Is it him? Is it her? When will I find? WILL I find? I remember, for a short time, I wasn’t looking. I had. Or thought I had, and those questions were removed from my mind. Those moments of having, of not looking, were a revelation to me. Cessation of search There was no lack, only bliss.