*+-Moon Pluto people (and define that however you like 🙂 it can be a metaphor for anyone, no matter their chart) tend to get overly Emotionally Intense in romantic relationships when they don’t feel IT coming back to them. What is IT?  Energy, emotion, passion, attention… in an obvious way. Cool […]
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*+-I used to be more of a skeptic. I have a Virgo South Node. I think (Virgo) that I’m supposed to be less of a skeptic! Clients sometimes ask about the “fatedness” of their relationships and I do have a philosophy that there are “free-will” relationships and there are “fated” ones. That […]
*+-I was going to write a Part Two to my Sex And The Opposition post but there really wasn’t more to say. We worked it out. We always do. Ever have a relationship like that? That you are given more than your share of opportunities to end it and it […]
*+- I had a fight with my boyfriend last night. It seems (yes, seems) that our definitions and experience and need of sex or sexual expression… differs. I said to him: You have Moon in the 1st House. So do I. But I ALSO have Pluto there. Your cock […]
*+-Sometimes I am pretty sure that I understand my cats (and they are very chatty cats) way better than a certain person in my life. I understand each meow (and there are many different meows and other sounds as any cat person can tell you). I know what the gestures […]
*+-Sometimes I write about personal stuff on here. Sometimes I don’t. One thing is for sure though: my love life has been pretty interesting the last month or so. Recently a client wrote me an email to tell me of some good news in her life and expressed concern because […]
*+-I am working with a client who is Pisces Rising and has a serious boyfriend with some Serious Virgo Energy and I was emailing her about how I thought his Virgo energy was working (or *not* working) in her life and probably driving her batshit crazy at times. And I […]
*+-People talk (and sing) all the time about falling in love, what that feels like. But how does it feel to you to fall OUT of love? Does it feel yucky icky heartwrenching collapse on the floor in a puddle of your own blood, sweat and sobs? Or do you […]
*+-My boyfriend stopped talking to me the other day. And there was some build-up. It wasn’t completely out of the blue. We had, shall we say, opposing um needs. And yet. It’s the thing I haven’t been blogging about. Thinking about. Moping about. But not really writing about. Well, dear […]
*+-I feel uninspired lately. Writing-wise. I’ve been doing a lot of readings and my personal life is all jumbled. And I think it’s the blog that is suffering because I haven’t been writing about IT. And I probably should. But probably not  yet. Because probably I wouldn’t know what to […]
*+-It’s the pile-up in Earth signs that got me thinking. Venus heading to conjunct Pluto in Capricorn. Moon in Capricorn but past those degrees. Jupiter in Taurus, trining Venus. Mars in Virgo trining Pluto. Except for the Moon now, all within 8 degrees. All these folks are talking to each […]
*+-(Re-posting this in honor of the Sun in Sagittarius) Because it’s such a harsh sky out there, and because we’re all under it, I decided to try to write something light. And then couldn’t think of anything. So instead I’ll write about my love life 😉 My boyfriend is a Sagittarius with […]
*+-Sometimes a relationship is over, or nearly over, and the client (I hate that word client — I need a new word) wants the synastry, the chart comparison done and I always say sure, it’s up to you. But in the back of my mind, or the front of mind, […]
*+-Everyone on deck! Uranus! Pluto! Chiron! Being alone sucks. When my relationship was going well (or better than it is now) I had no lack of material to feed me and my writing. Love. Every twist and turn the relationship made inspired me. Sometimes I wrote about it and sometimes […]
*+-No time to blog today so here is another repost… Relationships always bring you back to yourself… in maddening ways, but ultimately good, transformative, 8th House ways. Understand this: Moon Pluto people are always struggling in their intimacy. Wrestling with themselves. They are too intense, too domineering, they give too much, or they withhold. They […]
*+-I’ve got no time to blog today so this is a repeat… Jazzzy One on Twitter had an interesting comment for me about my Moon Pluto: Hard To Kill blog post. She said, “Nice advice for Moon Pluto People. Got any advice for people dealing with Moon Pluto people?” I laughed while realizing it was a great […]
*+-Joanna’s comment on my Detatch/Attach blog post got me thinking. And writing. Hello again 🙂 That when I look back on… men that I loved or thought I loved and how heartwrenchingheartaching it was at the time when the relationships were dying, that… now I can’t feel those feelings, and […]
*+-I was responding to some reader comments when I got an idea for a new blog post. Thinking again about detatchment. Attatchment. If you detatch, then you don’t have to feel. If you attach, then you risk losing… I put a picture of Neil Young up here because he’s a […]
*+-Opal in the comments inspired this post. She was talking about my Synastry blog post this morning that was talking about how some people, more sensitive ones, will get exhausted by too many hard aspects in synastry and a more detatched type may have more stamina for this. Read the […]
*+-When things are good, I like writing about my relationship. When things are tense, I like writing about my relationship. I especially like to write about jealousy, and the other night, on the phone, having fun, I started to probe. Now I’m no Scorpio, but a Moon Pluto conjunction in […]
*+-You know what I mean, right? You hear about these couples or maybe you know them and someone says “Oh yeah she was the life of the party and then she met Jack and he TAMED her.” And they talk about this like it is a good thing and maybe […]
*+-Jazzzy One on Twitter had an interesting comment for me about my Moon Pluto: Hard To Kill blog post. She said, “Nice advice for Moon Pluto People. Got any advice for people dealing with Moon Pluto people?” I laughed while realizing it was a great question. So what did I […]
*+-You really have to look at the whole chart. You really have to compare the two charts. You really have to interact with the person. You really have to try. Or, at least, feel out the situation. I always say to Trust the Chart but we  live and breathe in […]
*+-Probably 🙂 Aries is Mars and Libra is Venus and when Venus is in Aries, it’s, well, acting like a dude! Chasing, hunting, being a warrior. Not behavior fitting a lady. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not sexist. But what happens to the man when the woman is doing the […]