1. Fight with your boyfriend
2. Experiment with your blog’s template (Sorry for the Under Construction look)
3. I don’t know if there is a three. All I know is that #1 and #2 are enough. Yesterday I felt agitated, emotional. And today? Today came the tears. Poor thing, the boy. He handled it well though. He even said the S-word. Sorry. First time I’ve ever heard him say it. I blame the lunation.
I have no words of wisdom tonight, no poetry, no inspiration. Just real life. Yelling at your boyfriend that he may as well find someone else because of x and y and z. What’s the astrology? YOU KNOW the fucking astrology.
I suggested to him: maybe we should speak on Thursday, skip Wednesday, skip the exact degree, you know? Well, he didn’t agree. So we’ll see. I’ll be working, running around, trying to get the best seat on the train. All I know is… I am feeling this and… now that I think about it… it was a good cry. And maybe I’ve got a bit more in me yet. One of those pure water cries, no malice, no manipulation, just the river.
Okay. Gearing up. Here comes the wisdom. Don’t go to bed angry. If you fight with someone, call them up. Tell them you love them. Say it more than once. Make sure they hear it. Even if they don’t believe you.
I don’t know why I feel we’re all in this together. Maybe because more people have been commenting. Slowly, slowly, a little community is building. This makes me happy. Thanks for reading.
Happy Eclipse, y’all.
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16 thoughts on “What Not To Do On A Full Moon Lunar Eclipse”
Thanx, Dix. This morning I woke up feeling delight 🙂 resolution was the revelation and all was all. Interesting that agitation is what most r reporting. I invite all of you to share my delight. Here, have a bite 🙂
I’ve been agitated as hell myself, hon. I hear you. ♥ Hope you get what you need out of the eclipse and the tears. Much love.
Well I got the posts to post (audio report is up btw) and I medicated the kid who needed it and hadn’t had it. There is less noise. *deep breath*
deep eclipse breaths lol
I hope you’re feeling better this morning. I am a little agitated with technology and kids today.
Regarding the wisdom of not going to bed angry. I always held by that wisdom. Until I fell in love with a super Aquarian. Esp with Mercury in Aquarius, (and he has sun, Merc, Mars, Venus and Jupiter there) they need some distance in order to process a fight. It took me a while to learn that his need to process didn’t mean he was not committed to working things out. He just did it differently than I did.
Thanks for your perspective, Lupa.
Yes, feeling much better. In fact, although very very tired, I feel… good 🙂
May your agitation de-agitate. And May your kids entertain themselves 🙂 🙂 🙂
love the new look
Yay! Thank you for letting me know 🙂
It is! But we get through 🙂
Just hope everyone has a better day today…. Feelings of saddness are awful… Sometimes it’s so hard to pull oneself out… This blog is great because it makes me smile inside….hope we can all do that today 🙂 Moon you write beautiful… It’s not about what the page looks like… It’s what is ON the page… I am sure it will turn out great!!!! Have a great day everyone!!!!
Thanks Hnybr. Hope you have a great day too.
<3 Sending good vibes. There's been a lot of emotions and situations on my end. Luckily anyone I could have fought with about it has been physically separated by solid distance and i didn't have the will power to say anything through technology. I'm trying to focus my energy other places and my emotions into my personal journal. I'm hoping for things to settle before making sure my relationships/ the people on the other end are alright. Hoping the eclipse will drop some good knowledge.
fateandplaylist: I’m sure of it. About dropping the good knowledge that is. Have a good day…….
♥ The fact that he didn’t agree that you should skip a day, seems like a good thing – although I know the need to back off until you get your emotions in check. 🙂
I’ve been waking up feeling depressed, but feeling somewhat better in the evening – usually having really perked up sometime in between. Hopefully one day, I’ll just be able to wake up and actually be happy that I’m still here. I remember a time when I would bounce out of bed – it’s been a while. I’m still trying to get myself together, and ignore the “what’s the point?” feelings that nag away at me. “You’re a mess, there’s no point in trying to change back now,” or, “it’s been too long, and you’re silly if you think that you could sell even one thing now.” and then there’s the shame over wasted time in which I’ve sunk into a depression based on those types of thoughts, and others – rather than just getting on with things, I want to go back and fix things.
The eclipse in July, is the one that freaks me out the most, because it ties in to those from the past two years, that kicked me in the teeth, and then the shin, then the stomach, and back to the teeth.. picking on my pets, friends and family members, too.
(Three years, actually – and certain ones way in the past.)
(((Angela))) I hope it’s smooth sailing for you