When you have sex at this age — and I mean *my age* i.e. middle-age, you’re making love to someone’s life, someone’s life story, it’s on their skin, in their cells, their blood, it’s their history, everything they are, hair fibers, fingernails, favorite food, their past lovers, past pain, their losses, failures, what they dream of, and all the good stuff too. Yeah, the good stuff. Everything that’s inside them.
You take all of that inside you, or you enter it. Depending on your um position.
And the only one for me is the one who understands this.
Sex = depth for me. I have an emotional Mars in Cancer, pretty well-aspected, including a square to Jupiter, and I think I’m more Marsy than Venus-y although as I get older I am *trying* to work on my Venus, my yinnny yin yin BUT–
With Uranus in Aries heading to my 8th House? Sex and death become one, my love — that old 8th house keyword: transformation. Change. The Death Card in the Tarot.
Sudden (Uranus) and surprising (Uranus) change (Uranus square Pluto) leading to more change.
Where is Uranus transiting in your chart?
xo
17 thoughts on “Uranus In Mars-Ruled Aries: What Kind Of Sex Will You Be Having For The Next 7 Years”
Thanks Aliza. I’ve also been reading Jan Spiller’s Cosmic Love which is helping me since I have a Pisces North Node. This way since my Uranus transit is in the 12th House, I’ll be more open to take chances and go with the flow.
Uranus has been squaring my Ascendent forever (it seems) and is transiting my 3H. Funny I have replied to a few of your posts this morning and everything is centered on third house.
Thus “breaking out” doesn’t feel quite comfortable. Makes you anxious. But can liberate your thinking! See? It’s not all in your mind but….
How do I find out where Uranus is transitioning in my chart? I’m a Virgo!
use a free site to plug in your chart info, astro.com for example — and then of course you can always get a reading but those aren’t free 🙂
how do i figure that out? so beautiful your words btw. i might write a poem based on them xx
what I told another reader: you can use a free site, astro.com is very popular. plug in your birth data and get a chart — or you can get a reading with me or any other astrologer but those aren’t free 🙂
5th house. It’s been there for a while, and I’m not having any, because the men are too screwed up, and now, so am I. one had such a bad effect on me. I haven’t had nearly as much sex as I would have liked – I wanted it ever since my teen years, but wasn’t about to sleep with just anyone.
Never too late, my dear. Just choose wisely 🙂 And use protection!
Uranus is transiting my 12th House. I’ve been wanting “the one” for several years now without luck. I guess I’ll either just be changing self-defeating attitudes that hurt my romantic relationships or I’ll attract guys that want secretive relationships. The Taurus in me and my Progressed Venus in Leo definitely doesn’t want another relationship like that…..
Uranus is also transiting my 12th. I’ve been attracting guys who think they are victims of all their previous significant others and come along, idealize me, and think I’m supposed to be their savior. HAH!
Weird Savior: 12th house Uranus transit!
Oh, I would love one of those! Come on, universe! 😀
Changing self-defeating attitudes is *always* a good idea! Uranus in the 12th House is interesting… the 12th being the place we can’t see all that well… Uranus operating all hidden-like in there, in our own little personal prison.
Uranus in the 12th though says “trust your instincts” even though you feel you can’t–
Uranus is Transiting my 6th house, Conjunct Chiron and opposite Pluto in Libra in the 12th. Ever since my progressed Moon has entered Scorpio, I have had sex on the brain 24/7. My mood has shifted a bit since my Progressed Venus has entered Taurus. I’ve been having dreams about a “Husband” for about two months now. I can’t make heads or tales of it.
My Mars is in Capricorn Square Uranus and Sextile my Venus/Sun in Pisces in the fifth. I do find myself attracted to men with a certain level of authority and power, even though these types are not the ones that approach me! I draw Man/Child types who need to be guided. I’m done with that.
My late eigth house! I recently realize this, and it makes SO much sense. I feel like there’s more to come- and it’s goin to be in Aries for 7 years? *_*
wow you guys read fast! time for you to start thinking 9th house! 🙂