Yep, I have one. My Venus is squared by Saturn and Neptune. The Saturn square is wide, but I claim it. The Neptune square is painfully close. My Venus also sextiles Jupiter but tend to forget that. My Venus is in the 12th. Interesting how easy it is to remember the “bad” and forget the good.
T-Squares are not the end of the road but they are roadsigns, pointing to… issues. Issues that need… tissues. Yes, tears. Anyone with a Venus t-square can attest to L O V E problems, whether or not they are the crying type.
The good news is that… No. Wait. I don’t want to talk about the good news yet. Neptune, on a bad day, is confusion, illusion, deception. “Fooled by love.” Saturn, on a bad day (as opposed to those Saturn good days) blocks and denies. Ouch. Makes you feel ugly. But wise astrologers say that… Venus square Saturn does not deny. He delays. I’ll let you know if that’s true 😉
So a busy Venus is a busy Venus is a busy Venus, happy or not. Would I gladly trade in my squares for softer aspects? Absolutely. Venus square Saturn can be stingy even though it desperately wants and needs. And Venus square Neptune needs to pine and long for the Beloved. Â I could go on. And I will! A bit later. To be continued….
Note to self: Aquarius is the missing leg of my t-square. Hmm.
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I have a T-Square between Venus/mars and Moon and Neptune. Talk about hurt in love!!! I also have venus trine saturn but even having a trine still brings restrictions, blocks and denies in the love area of life. And it’s true that it delays. In the first part of my life i was always made fun of by the opposite sex in middle and high school, well pretty much my whole life up until now,that is with a few exeptions becuase i have a very noticable flaw (big nose) thats hard to ignore. So i think the t-square adds extreme insecurity with self image/worth and feel that i would never be truly loved because of my image.But i am now in my late 20’s and i have a lover who i’ve been with for almost 2 years now. I consider him the love of my life but i feel he may not love me as much, or desires someone else, etc. But that could be my neptune speaking so i never really know when im being delusional or if it’s real. Even though i have the person i want to be with i still have a hard time in the love area. It still hurts and brings tears. i don’t know if that will ever go away. Don’t you ever wonder “why was i born with this aspect? why am i to suffer in love?” I do……and i still don’t know why.
Thanks for you comment, Katy — I hope you can find more peace and fewer tears 🙂 damn that venus neptune is a tough one – and then with mars and neptune and moon involved too!
Capricorn is the missing leg of my t-square, but it doesn’t involve Venus – that’s Jupiter, Saturn and Pluto, who can all work well together, or make the biggest mountains out of scraps of dirt, and/or add a huge dose of self-criticism. (Mercury squares Saturn, too.)
I have transiting Neptune square Moon/Venus and am really afraid of being fooled in any way. I’ve also wondered if I’m fooling myself in another way – either by thinking that I shouldn’t even try during this transit (at least for something with others, like an actual relationship), or if my looking so much into the past is just another delusion: my thinking that if I’d just done this and that, then everything would have been *so* much better in more than one regard. I try to bring myself back down to earth and remind myself that I probably would have collided with huge disappointments/hurts in other ways, and when detachment finally kicks in somehow, I go back to the scraps of dirt instead of mountains.
My sister has a t-square with Venus, I think – Venus in Aquarius square Jupiter in Taurus, and opposed Saturn in Leo. I don’t know how much I should say about her – I don’t know if it would embarrass her – but she’s been in a long-term relationship with an older man, and has had self-worth issues, even though she’s very pretty and people have wanted to know her (especially young men, who would go all goopy, and one just had his mouth fall open when he was around her, and was supposed to be selling my mother a television). She can get grouchy in other ways, and make her complaints known, but she carries around more actual issues than she talks about. I asked her recently if she was happy, because she seemed to be, but she thought briefly and said, “no”. She didn’t expand on that, and I didn’t push, but I wish I could help her.