You know what? Sagittarius is an oft-misunderstood sign although probably everyone feels that way. Misunderstood. Do you?
I’m thinking about Sagittarius not just because the Moon is in Sagittarius but the Moon in Sagittarius makes me review the Sagittarius that I have known throughout my life and damn it they’ve always been there which some may consider odd because I have a Cancer stellium which will inconjunct the Archer which can feel kind of itchy. I’m always the reticent one.
Sagittarius likes to roam, right? And Cancer likes to stay home, right? Sagittarius like to be free, freely freeing their freedom loving freeness!
Sagittarius no. 1: my best friend from age 12 until… well… until the time that I stopped talking to her. She wasn’t the one who left. It was ME!
And then there was Sagittarius no. 2, my first college boyfriend, my first boyfriend ever actually. He wrote me long long long long long letters and I broke his heart. Damn. No need to be sad though. He’s happily married with child. I think he’s my Facebook friend. Not sure. He’s never on there.
Sagittarius no. 3 – one of my good friends here in NYC. I don’t see her all that often but it’s because our lives our busy. Neither of us left the other. I love it when I see her – she’s family. And oof she’s DEEP (got Scorpio planets too).
And there are others but my point is this: you know what the secret side of Sagittarius is? They don’t leave. They fight to keep you (to varying degrees). And one could say: oh yes it’s the influence of Capricorn in their chart which can be a bit bullying 😉
There’s something of the puppy in them — no matter their um possible prurient interests or hobbies (found in some Archers) or how far and wide their travels take them. A Sagittarius who loves you is leashed to you. This has been my experience.
What about you?
xo
12 thoughts on “The Stars Today: Moon In Sagittarius (Or, The Sagittarius Whisperer)”
I haven’t had much experience with Sag sun’s, but tons with Sag moos. I seem to connect and see and experience people’s moon signs more than anything else. (scorpio stellium of pluto, mars, and mercury in the 4th house, and moon in pisces in the 8th.) My dad is a Sag moon, my closest cousin, my closest friend, and various other potentially close people i my life. I’ve come to understand them pretty well, and I see patterns in their behaviors (freedom and independence mostly)that they all share emotionally (sag). It’s really quite interesting. I regards to your post, I agree, and I think that this is because they don’t permanently attach easily, so when they do… it’s permanent. 😛
I’m surrounded by them. I’ve noticed they will always be there for you if you’re in trouble, no matter your history. If you need someone, they’re there (but they will finally draw boundaries – my mother has mars/pluto in Leo, trine her sun, and is *tough* – she will just walk away, if need be).
Yes I’m like this with everyone – no matter what happens I’m always there for them. My best friend is a Cancer and we had a falling out, and she didn’t speak to me for 3 years. During that time I would write to her here and there and just let her know that when she was ready, I was still around. And she came back and it’s as if we lost no time. This is a repeating theme.
I’ll tell you what it is – it’s idealism. It’s optimism. It’s this feeling that no matter what the obstacle is, it CAN be overcome and that there will be a sunnier day. It’s just this confidence that things will be good and so even if relationships aren’t good, we keep working on them because we see their potential.
Also, truthfully, we are pretty into ourselves, and we have a LOT of stories to tell, and we need someone, lots of someones, around to tell our stories to!
Interesting take on Sagittarius. My experience is that they don’t leave forever because the reason why people end relationships is because they no longer have any use (Capricorn) for them or they get angry at betrayal (Scorpio). Sagittarius influence on the ego makes them always see a learning purpose in interacting with someone and they rebound from negative feelings (or so they’d like to think).
I met one Sagittarius while walking in the park and reading. We spent time together until he stole from me and I stopped returning his calls. Years later, I saw him on the train and he called me that night – because he remembered my number.
If you don’t put them on a leash, then Sagittarius returns.
Why do you break their hearts/leave?
LOL I noticed that after I had written the post it seemed to be a pattern 😉
The childhood friend sitch: too complicated to relate here. She pursued me though – She MADE me be her friend. I wasn’t intersted. She wouldn’t stop. (this is when we were teenagers). I think Sag loves Cancer 😉
The college b/f: I was young and stupid and couldn’t handle how close he needed to be – never examined my chart rom those years
The other friend: def didn’t break her heart – we’re still friends– but I don’t see her so often– When I do stop by though, it’s always nice. She’s not the stop-by-type so as long as I go visiting, I see her.
Thanks for ur comment!
Oh. Ha. Where’s the Sagittarius area in your chart? Do they light that up? Mine is 1st house. I like their general approach to life and positive attitude – until I don’t.
Ahhh … That’s too sweet Moon.. Loyal to the end no matter what…My friends always call me a little ” puppy”… Sag stellium… 🙂
I love Sagittarian men! And men who have a strong Sadge influence! All of mine have Cap and Scorpio (and my best male friend has an added Taurus Moon), so much staying energy! It’s a really decent part of my chart, the only possible hard aspect is a square to my Sun. I’ve only met one Sadge who couldn’t handle that, but he had some very Leo energy going on, too. But they are my fave, and I would date one again.
Interesting observations. I am Sag. sun and I agree. I stay and I am kinda like a puppy. I’ve actually said that before. Two of my best females friends on the planet have a Cancer sun. I love them but there is NO WAY I would date a Cancer male. They are just strange. Maybe even more than Scorpio. 🙂
LOL those strange Cancer men 😉
My mercury in sag would agree…distance tends to make my heart grow fonder 🙂 but it doesn’t mean I have left! Although I will if I have to.
Oh yes that’s the other side of it: pull away + come back! Long leash but leash all the same 😉