*+-Sometimes I think Synastry is irrelevant. Synastry to put it simply is comparing two (or more!) birth charts. And the idea that you can have great synastry with someone and the relationship can still fail. I hate that. But I understand why we look and why we need to understand and […]
compatibility
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*+-You know what squares in synastry are? They are misunderstandings. And misunderstandings can be understood! Once you really get a sense of the planet in the sign that’s squaring yours… it becomes less painful. Trust me on this. It’s a lesson I just learned and it rings so damn true. […]
*+-No time to blog today so here is another repost… Relationships always bring you back to yourself… in maddening ways, but ultimately good, transformative, 8th House ways. Understand this: Moon Pluto people are always struggling in their intimacy. Wrestling with themselves. They are too intense, too domineering, they give too much, or they withhold. They […]
*+-I’ve got no time to blog today so this is a repeat… Jazzzy One on Twitter had an interesting comment for me about my Moon Pluto: Hard To Kill blog post. She said, “Nice advice for Moon Pluto People. Got any advice for people dealing with Moon Pluto people?” I laughed while realizing it was a great […]
*+-I was deleting old messages from my phone and found this. It’s possible I’ve already, um, posted this but some things bear repeating. Whether this is one of those things, I’m not sure 😉 More about Moon Pluto People in relationship: I used to project my Emotional Intensity. I used […]
*+-A gal on Twitter was asking about squares and oppositions in Synastry. She’s feeling bummed out about all the “doom and gloom” type predictions. My honest opinion? Too many squares and oppositions? It won’t work. Unless you are a masochist. That much misunderstanding, and I think that’s what too many […]
*+-You really have to look at the whole chart. You really have to compare the two charts. You really have to interact with the person. You really have to try. Or, at least, feel out the situation. I always say to Trust the Chart but we live and breathe in […]
*+-Probably 🙂 Aries is Mars and Libra is Venus and when Venus is in Aries, it’s, well, acting like a dude! Chasing, hunting, being a warrior. Not behavior fitting a lady. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not sexist. But what happens to the man when the woman is doing the […]
*+-So I had a fight with my boyfriend yesterday and became paranoid (Hello Venus Pluto!) that my lovelife, as I knew it, was over. I went about my day today as best I could, feeling miserable and horrible. Feeling very sorry for myself, a highly prized Cancerian trait 😉 And […]
*+-Dear Fellow Star Gazers, a reader sent me the following question and a column was born: Can Astrology Help My Love Life? My answer? It absolutely can! But first, LoveLess, know thyself. Do you know your own birth chart? That’s the first step. And then of course to scrutinize the details […]
*+-“Gotta be me,” he said. It made me pause. What the hell did that mean? Did it mean: don’t tread on me? Did it mean: he puts “me” above “we” ? Or maybe he felt oppressed by me in the moment, just this moment, he with his free-ranging chart. Was […]
*+-My boyfriend’s Saturn Chiron conjunction conjuncts my descendent. And North Node. Yes, you heard me right. Anyone else would, perhaps, leave town. Leave the country. Jump in front of a speeding #7 train. But not me. I’m Venus Neptune girl. I’m Venus Saturn girl. I’m Venus Jupiter girl. Square, Square, […]
*+-Recently I wrote a blog post about Cancer Scorpio INcompatibility but the truth is, this match can work. Just like any of the pairings in the Zodiac can work. But I wanted to write another post about it in case I inadvertently discouraged anyone out there, any little crabs or […]
*+-Because it’s such a harsh sky out there, and because we’re all under it, I decided to try to write something light. And then couldn’t think of anything. So instead I’ll write about my love life 😉 My boyfriend is a Sagittarius with too many water placements and women like […]
*+-Ever notice that even if the ex-girlfriend is the same sign as you, or has similar placements, that she’s not like you at all. Or she’s the lower vibration of the sign. The very worst of the sign. Or that her sign and ruling planet don’t EXIST in our galaxy. […]
*+-The sign of Capricorn rules my 5th House. I am not the Life of the Party (according to Isabel Hickey). I am Saturnian in Love. So what happens when the Life of the Party falls in love with… Not the Life of the Party? Dear Fellow Star Gazers, I have […]
*+-Capricorn governs the things of the body that break, but don’t break us: skin and bone. Leo, on the other hand, rules the heart 🙂 In a battle of wills between these two, who would win? And would that battle keep love from staying the night?
*+-I can never remember the names of the different chakras, no matter how many times I read about them. Or experience them. Early in my relationship, I was trying to express… some feelings to my boyfriend. Express that I felt him in my heart chakra and in my… but I […]
*+-Truth is, I didn’t. Not at all. But I am acquiring more and more non-Virgos in my life. Everyone with a shit-ton of Virgo should do the same. Virgo is the consummate worrier. Virgo doesn’t even know when Virgo is worrying until a non-Virgo yells STOP.
*+-This pairing is supposed to be one for the record books, but I have my doubts. Why? Reason One: Scorpio so close to Libra and Sagittarius on the wheel often guarantees a sidedish of these two signs which tend to annoy Cancer, especially Libra.
*+-Now this is an interesting match. These two signs sextile, which means, potentially, they go together nicely. Earth and water. But as the saying goes, what do earth and water make? Mud!
*+-I’m a long time Grey’s Anatomy fan and I wrote a post once, imagining the signs of the characters. Now, celebrities don’t interest me, but characters do, and I was shocked to hear (last week while doing my laundry) that McDreamy is leaving the show!
*+-My boyfriend told me about a dream he had last night. It was an erotic dream. After he was done telling me “what happened,” I was most curious about what it meant, not just for him, but symbolically. Thank me, I said to him. Thank me for not asking you […]
*+-I’m a Cancer Sun Mercury and Mars so everything for me begins and ends with feeeeeeeelings. And here’s my question today: How do you feel about the opposition, in regards to synastry? We all know what the astro textbooks say, but what is your experience? Have you found romantic oppositions […]