*+-(This is not a re-post but I know I’ve written about this before.) We all do friendship differently. I need space in mine and lots of it. My Cancer stellium, Sun, Mercury, and Mars, is in the 11th house, which is associated with Aquarius, an air sign. Objects in the […]
11th house
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*+-Benevolence, associates, aspirations… I have an 11th House stellium. Companions, cooperation, clubs… Sun Mercury Mars in Cancer which I think causes confusion in my friendships. Hopes, friends, money from career… I’ve got the Cancer thing going on but it’s in Aquarius’ House so I can leave. I need drama-free friendship. Want […]
*+-Alimony, accountants, ancestors… The 8th House is one of those houses we whisper about. Memorial services, the bladder, bankruptcy… There’s some embarrassment about it. You see planets in the 8th House and right away you “know some things” about that person. Autopsy, death, life after death… There’s more 000h and […]
*+-Why I don’t: Because y’all square my Saturn. In Taurus. In the 9th House which is my perspective (9th) which has enough trouble with Saturn there. Saturn limits. And y’all inconjunct my Cancer Stellium. In the 11th House. You’d think there’d be some sympathy there because the 11th is Aquarius’ […]
*+-It’s a spooky feeling when a relationship changes. When it ends. End meaning… it was one thing and now it’s another. The example of the couple who become friends and… one or the other can be in the middle of… washing the dishes or watching tv or working and… remember […]
*+-Where’s the upcoming Full Moon for you? My previous post made mention of the 11th House being the house associated with Aquarius (weird) although of course you may have a different sign on this house cusp…. This Full Moon sits between my Cancer Sun and Cancer Mercury (with Mars right there […]
*+-I confess these types drive me nutsy and I am talking friendship here (not romantic relationship). I like — no, require — FREEDOM in my friendship. No drama between us. Freedom to come and go: love and loyalty that cannot be demanded or reprimanded, required, expected. Buddy system, honor system. […]
*+-A reader shared something with me so beautiful this morning that I had to share it here. That she was at the start of her day, her daily life, busy with her kids, the sun was rising, it was cool out, she was noticing her world and the day ahead, […]
*+-I decided to head back to Zuccotti Park today to absorb more energy and to try to make sense of it. Like a good Virgo Moon, I did everything on my list before heading out. Would it feel different on a weekend? How would it feel? Would I see the […]
*+-When I was in college, I had a creative writing (poetry) teacher who used the phrase “murder your darlings.” What he meant was that sometimes a line in a poem that you are really really attached to… well… it’s just not working and you can’t see it because you are […]
*+-So I keep threatening to leave Facebook and I see this as a manifestation of transiting Saturn applying to my Sun, Mercury and Mars in Cancer, especially my Mercury. 2nd House to 11th house. My friendships are being affected, but more the not-in-person-Facebook-reconnection-type friendship, which is pretty 11th House if you think […]
*+-So I wanted to write about love in the natal chart. And I don’t mean finding love but about the capacity TO love. They say the 5th House is the love you give and the 11th House is the love you receive. What if one is empty and one is full? […]
*+-Do you feel energy? Sometimes I need to feel energy around me, more than I need to talk, although I need that too. And I give this quality to my Cancer planets. Mercury in Cancer can be quiet or just… a sideways communicator. My Cancer stellium is in the 11th House so I […]
*+-There is no way to separate the Full Moon in Capricorn from our buddy Saturn, in Libra. See, Saturn rules Capricorn, and the Moon in Capricorn squared Saturn in Libra. It was a brief transit, the Moon moves quickly, but a painful one, harsh. If all of this criss-crossing confuses you, don’t worry. The […]
*+-Just home from meditation class and the Boyfriend calls. He’s teasing me. Yet again. Wanting to know how long I’ve been going to my meditation class (years) and why I haven’t learned it yet. He likes to tease me. And I like to answer earnestly. “Meditation is a process,” I […]