Agreements, alliances, business partners…
Really touched by the comments folks left on my 6th House post. Thank you.
Clients, controversy, contacts with others…
Let’s move on to the 7th House now and see what — or who! — turns up!
Dealings with the public, divorce, fugitives!
An aside: my 7th House is empty. Or is it?
OPEN ENEMIES! (Look for them by transit!)
I’ve got the Warrior Goddess there: Pallas Athena!
Marriage, your husband, your wife, contracts, contractual relationships…
AND my North Node in the 6th is conjunct my 7th House cusp so… well.. make of that what you will.
Partners, peace, the people in your life…
Am I fighting with windmills? Or is there someone there? Will MoonPluto ever find happiness amongst the humans 😉 Will you??
Rivals, sweethearts…
Another aside – the other night on the phone with someone whose Mars opposes my Mars. Oy. My Moon in Virgo struggles to make sense of… his Mars, his Moon and I feel like a robot, a machine. I go into high Virgo trying to figure it out BUT hello Virgo STOP TRYING and just…
Welcome to my 7th House. Pisces-land. Relationships confuse me.
And you know what they say about the 7th House: the qualities associated with the planets in this house or the sign on the cusp are YOURS and/or you will attract such and/or you will project such onto others rather than own what is truly yours.
So someone with Pluto in the 7th House may not realize how passionate, intense, and manipulative they are 😉 They will outsource those qualities. Important not to let the qualities of 7th House planets or the sign on the cusp become blindspots. This takes work. People will… defend themselves to the death: it’s not ME! It’s them! Well, it is you, too. And the more you blame others, the more obvious it is to the rest of us.
What’s happening in your 7th? What sign is on the cusp? What planet rules that sign?
xo
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9 thoughts on “Keywords For The 7th House: Me, You, And Everyone Else”
I have pluto in scorpio in the 7th house. Even though my seventh house is ruled by Libra, all my planets in this house are in scorpio (pluto/juno/lilith/cupido) and conjunct. And these placements are all trine my pisces venus (in the 12th).
For as long as I could remember, I never wanted meaningless, superficial relationships. The mere thought of them saddens me. I have this deep feeling that my soul mate will enter my life sooner or later, when I least expect it. I have this faith and hope that it will all fall into place when it is meant to. I have great wells of patience 😉
I’ve dabbled in little romances (teen love more than anything else) and I am as virgin as one could be.
So many people just know -upon just meeting me- that I am not looking for flings or hook ups or anything other than a true, deep union of the souls. And it isn’t like I advertize it or shout it out. In fact, my venus in the 12th makes me pretty silent about my romantic aspirations (there my business and nobody else’s) yet others sense it right from the get-go. And after observing other people mess up their relationships by rushing into them and keeping things as superficial as possible, never really digging deep into the heart of the relationships, I have vowed not to let that happen to me. I feel like I would die emotionally, spiritually if my relationship lacked in substance.
And I feel the same way with my friendships. I have very few friends that I can trust with my life, others are just…people I interact with though no conncection is established.
I have one hard aspect to my pluto in the seventh which is opposite my merc in taurus(1st) but I love this placement and am truly obsessed with it. It seems there is never enough I can find out about it. 🙂
That’s an intense 7th House, Brie! I’m not surprised it’s only the real deal for you.
Saturn in Aquarius in the 7th house- still observing how this manifests. The only thing I can say for certain is that I do take relationships (not just romance) seriously, and they have always been a learning experience for me. I’m also very…I have set standards for my interactions and relationships-mainly that I know I get what I give, energy wise and etc., and if I don’t feel I’m receiving the love and/or dedication I’m giving, I pull back. I give deeply (pisces moon in the 8th.) I can see how Aquarius on my DC manifests- aquarian qualities are ones I’ve resisted, but I’m learning to accept within myself. Also being more detached in one on one’s is a good standard approach for me until I get to know the person.
I have Pisces ruling my 7th House, too! My DC is at 0deg Pisces ruled by Neptune in my natal 4th House. My natal Neptune is also conjunct Jupiter. Sadly, my 7th house has been asleep romantically for some time. My Pluto, Uranus, Sun, Mercury and Venus in Libra hate that!
Also – I have confused compassion/pity for men with love and I’ve had horrible relationships because of it. I hope I will not make that mistake again.
My seventh house is empty, like all of the houses to come, with the exception of my eigth house, occupied by Chiron. It’s ruled by Aries/Mars, which is in my first house. My Libra house is ruled by Aries, and my Aries house is ruled by Libra, which is sort of funny to me. I do tend to see others as being more aggressive than I am, though in the past, I’ve attracted people who, if they didn’t invite me to take charge of their lives, sort of stepped aside, and let me do so. Taurus sneaks in, at the very end, ruled by Venus, like my first house.
“the qualities associated with the planets in this house or the sign on the cusp are YOURS and/or you will attract such and/or you will project such onto others rather than own what is truly yours”…this is the part that confuses me. I’ve got lots of qualities in there, I don’t know that it’s possible to project all of that. My 7th’s in cancer. It’s supposed to be a feeling, nurturing place but cancer is ruled by the moon and my moon is in Virgo. I prefer analysis & adjustment. I can definitely feel Saturn in my 7th and the cooler atmosphere of Libra’s natural house. I tend to gravitate toward charming, gregarious people in relationships. I’m not sure I could project those things. I have those qualities but I think of them like DNA or genotype and phenotype; there but not expressed without an act of god 😉
Oh, MoonPluto… the Pisces Descendent; I feel your pain … or… longing… or unclarity….
Maybe even drowning? Inspiring? Redemption?
I think I have experienced most of those Neptunian things.
Like catching a fish. Only to have it flip-flop out of my hands.
So…. elusive.
I don’t know, but Neptune or Jupiter may know.
I’ve got Neptune in the 3rd, conjuncting the cusp of the 4th.
And Neptune ruling my seventh house, home of the Other.
Hello Dionysus?
Or I could take the Jupiter route… all that Libra?
Or I will take the Mercury retrograde route… back into Pisces.
Talking in circles now!
Happy Mercury Retro! =)
Great post… =)
Love the way you communicate astrology.
Neptune in my 7th – in Scorpio – I once read that is the sign that you should marry – it is the sign of my momma xoxo but my husband is a 0 degree Libra 🙂
I have both Jupiter and Venus in my 7th house. But I haven’t noticed anything of interest in my life! And my 7th house is ruled by Aries.
But… I have no love life and people are less than attracted to how forward and blunt I am about my being attracted to them. I’m learning to scale back though!