Let’s say you are getting over a love affair. It’s done but you’re clinging. How do you latch off the boobie?
In my experience, time does helps. But reality helps more which is why deFriending your ex isn’t always the best idea.
See, if you keep them around, you can spy and you can see…not the new girl (or boy) but ALL THE REASONS you said goodbye, in all their glory 🙂
People don’t change. Our perspective does. Baruch Hashem for that.
Now of course you run the risk of the opposite happening but I say give yourself the option 🙂
Saturn goes retrograde in February and you may find yourself slipping back into… less than savory habits. Not just snooping but stooping.
When Saturn is direct, we are “rewarded” for our maturity. Â We are not going against the grain or swimming upstream but given opportunity after opportunity (yes I know that word is more Jupiter than Saturn but hear me out) to get it right. To “grow up and out of it.”
Saturn retrograde however could see you fall into the well. Dramarama jealousy paranoia. The destructive urge instead of the survival and maintaining urge. Seeking to control others with your… stuff! Sex! Power! Threats! Stuff!
Saturn in Scorpio is… gooey. Gushy, messy, bloody. And retrograde? The clean-up crew has gone home. There is *less* support for your great endeavor, whatever it is. You must fend for yourself and not succumb to intensity for intensity’s sake. You must work harder to give it a purpose. Games will be played all around you, but you, yes you, can stand tall, be Saturn, and slip under the radar like a good Scorpio wearing the white hat.
The DL is a Cancer by the way, with a Virgo Moon, but Jupiter in Scorpio 🙂
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11 thoughts on “In Praise Of Facebook Snooping: Saturn In Scorpio”
Ahh, great post! This is how I always end up letting go…seeing the truth about someone. Best medicine ever.
Yesss, totally agree!
“People don’t change. Our perspective does. Baruch Hashem for that.” ABSOLUTELY!
“Latch off the boobie”..lol I have been guilty…snooping. But it WAS a for a good hard dose of REALITY to move on. Still I just look and know that I can and that cold rush of green plasma does not course through me anymore. And that is satisfaction in of itself. Not to say I do need to be cautious once Saturn goes retro. Hope I can hold my breath that long.
Excellent post, a good heads up to have. 🙂
Howdy, Caroline!
I am always in danger of succumbing to intensity for intensity’s sake so thank you for alerting me to this. I don’t want to fall in that well; I’ve come way too far for that.
I was actually just patting myself on the back today for not becoming the green eyed monster when hearing certain pieces of news about individuals I (for now) have hopeless crushes on. I don’t want to be that person. That is my worst nightmare.
How long is this RX again?
xoxo
Oh darn I have to check when I get up again 🙂 (the lazy astrologer!) Summertime. That I know for sure. Oh..wait. July 7th I think. TWO DAYS before my birthday. Happy birthday to me 🙂 Glad I gave you the alert, Sara!
Could it be any longer? Jeez!
That’s a great birthday present you’re getting. 🙂
How do I latch off the boobie???* How does anyone??
*i have no idea what this means
Your comment really made me giggle, Matt. Thank you!
Which part don’t you understand? I just meant “letting go” of a compulsion.