RELATIONSHIPS!!!!
Relationships are on my mind. I’m compelled to use all caps again and YES I AM YELLING WHEN I DO THIS.
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Relationships bring up issues we didn’t even KNOW were issues because BEFORE we were looking in the mirror and NOW we are looking at another person and they are looking at us and HELLO INTIMACY we’re not alone anymore and we are confronted with all the ways we try to control ourselves and everyone and everything around us (absence of flow, absence of faith) and MAYBE this isn’t your problem but it’s my problem (part of my problem) and I’m realizing I have a limited definition of… what I feel is okay.
And that must change. I must make… room.
Are you in a relationship? A new one? An old one? What’s happening?
VIRGO SOUTH NODE PEOPLE or anyone seeking perfection instead of process, this post is for you. As someone said on my Facebook today, there are days for fitting into your clothes and then there are days for fried bread 🙂 but sometimes I have this TERROR in me and relationships are OPPOSITIONS (Me vs. We) thus WE ARE SEEN including the terror and it feels all quakey until the other person says that thing I was talking about here I LOVE YOU ANYWAY.
Those of you who are my Facebook friends and who participate on my page (and in my chat room) know bits and pieces of my story and know that there is food being cooked around here IT IS CANCER SEASON AFTER ALL and we NEED to be fed so PLEASE ALLOW IT GRAND TRINE IN WATER PEOPLE JUPITER SATURN NEPTUNE STOP GETTING IN YOUR OWN WAY!
Love, MP
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8 thoughts on “Help For South Node In Virgo And Other Woeful PerfectionistTypes”
YES! 100%. I promised to work on myself after my break up someone else will not nitpick, but simply exit at my lack of self esteem, lack of ability to put together nice outfits/be put together all the time, not being adventurous or liking to do outdoor adventure sports with others or jogging around others, awkwardness and inability to have social graces, general problems with managing my own time/being an adult, and not knowing my body well enough to have the O or fake it. TMI. It hems in on me to be controlled by other people, yet I try to control them. All the ways I need to learn how to be an adult woman come to light in a relationship, otherwise people ignore it/me or my friends don’t care too much about the fact that I’m a work in progress. Sometimes progress that makes no effort to paint its toenails or wear dresses in the summer.
I think you’ll get there, D. Where’s your North Node?
Aliza u r always F… Spot On . Maybe you tap into our lives. Via yours, but you have the love and the courage to share it and help us,,,, blessings ✨✨✨
Danielle xxoo big love to you
Capricorn SN conj. venus in the second and cancer NN in the 8th as well as my moon, and I crave closeness/intimacy/total transparency with another, but that cap SN is all business and hand shakes… I want to control and manage and keep the business suit ON. the moon wants to merge and get naked… in all forms of the word. yeah, I get this completely. trying to mix business w/pleasure.
I know all too well what you are talking about. I know a person who is a Virgo rising with a Cancer moon. NOT easy for this person to find someone who understands a perfectionist homebody who analyzes everything to death & wants to control everything. Who wants their food made a certain way & has their own way “the right way of doing things”. If they can find someone who says “I LOVE YOU ANYWAY”. I really feel like that is the needle in the haystack person. That’s a “special” person who understands them. I wish so bad that a special person comes into the life of my Virgo rising, Cancer moon friend 🙂
That’s sweet, Shannon 🙂
Not in a relationship, and 95% of the time, I don’t want to be. That 5% niggles at me when I develop a crush. I start to feel like I might be “seen,” and that if a relationship were actually to happen, that it might have a better effect on me (actually being loved). And then I worry about changing my life, and fitting them into it, or fitting myself into theirs, and what happens if we end up hating each other?
I couldn’t take a heartbreak right now, but I could do with feeling loved-up. What if I’m too screwed up to have anything now? 🙁 And too used to being alone. People I know were talking about being emotionally unavailable; I am, to a point. I have a strong need to be seen and loved for who I am, but I also don’t want to have that need. I want to be able to stand on my own two feet, but I think I’m going to need that boost. Unfortunately, there’s no guarantee that it won’t end in heartbreak/rejection.