
Joanna’s comment on my Detatch/Attach blog post got me thinking. And writing. Hello again 🙂
That when I look back on… men that I loved or thought I loved and how heartwrenchingheartaching it was at the time when the relationships were dying, that… now I can’t feel those feelings, and I think that’s amazing.
I mean: how did I so purely and cleanly love my ex-boyfriend? Now we are friends and I can speak to him or even see him without a pang? How is this possible? Is it NORMAL?
Sometimes I see him and when I see him I do wonder why or how or remember the pain but I don’t feel it, I don’t step inside it and yet it was once a part of my daily life. And I also look back on that time and think; I can get through anything. I got through that.
As I struggle now with a current relationship and some things about this one remind me of that one, trigger me, and I lose my balance, and want So Much To Believe (Neptune) that…. Well, I edited out the rest of this sentence 🙂
Uranus will begin his long transit through my 8th House soon enough. And Pluto through my 5th. And Neptune through my 7th. Disruption, transformation, illusion. Does that sound like a happy ending to you? (I am not that cynical, but I am funny 😉
The longing for stability. Elusive. Painful. My North Node on my 7th House Cusp. How to get over THERE? How to choose wisely.
I don’t pine when it’s over. I pine DURING. Venus in the 12th House pines. Venus square Neptune pines.
But I am wondering about your chart. Do you have transiting planets in your relationship houses? Think 5th, 7th, 8th: love, marriage, sex.
How’s your love life?
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2 thoughts on “Do You Pine Once It’s Over? Venus in the 12th square Neptune”
::sings::
I wish i had a dollar for
Each time I took a chance
On all those two bit romeos…….
I still have a vinyl copy of that soundtrack somewhere…and I still remember the Coppola-freak filmaker dude who gave it to me (Or did I steal it from him ? Can’t remember)
Ah well. I have Jupiter transiting my 8th and Uranus in my 7th ,Neptune and Chiron on their way out of the 5th and the NN coming up on my Venus. And no love life. I must be doing penance for my earlier days ::grins:: Or perhaps I’ve transcended.
That’s it. I’ve transcended earthly delights 🙂
LOL Opal 🙂