
I lose myself in love. Completely. I’m also aware that I have other Neptune problems and my Venus in Pisces in the 12th House only makes it worse. Help! I’m drowning!
Dear Drowning: did you ever try floating instead? I feel your pain, I really do. I have Pisces on the 7th House cusp and a stack of Neptune problems and I merge too. I lose myself. I begin to live for the other person and become… uninteresting. So I speak from experience. And I think women do this a lot.
My advice is to begin to unfuzz your boundaries. How do you do this? Look to your opposite, earth, Virgo, and remember, if you can, that you are separate from the beloved, that you have a body, literally. Put your feet on the ground. Start with that.
I think Neptune problems are some of the most insidious because we don’t notice what’s happening, and all of a sudden we wake up one day and… we’re gone. The “I” Β of “you” has vanished, disappeared. That’s Neptune for ya. An odorless, poisonous gas π
One thing you can do is apply this energy in other ways. Did you read my post about Venus in Virgo? Pisces needs to love big. Remember that Jupiter was Pisces original ruler, and Pisces love is so big, so all-encompassing that… loving one person really isn’t enough. I mean, don’t tell them that π but… and this is what I really need to tell you: Love MORE.
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this is a perfect summary of how Neptune effects our relationships! I just did a ‘life writing’ exercise about my Neptune square Neptune transit and how that set me up with a woman whose natal Neptune fell smack dab on my natal Sun – Ouch! It still effects me – 17 years later.
Welcome, Debra π Glad it rang true for you
I was thinking because they are both in my chart the reason they go together is they both STINK … Boy do they ever…:)
Do fish and goats go together π
They sextile. Pisces and Cap? Could be… Depends on the charts and the people involved. Water and Earth. Could be.
Pisces rising.. First house.. When my love is not reciprocated I actually get paralyzed.. It’s awful..