I lose myself in love. Completely. I’m also aware that I have other Neptune problems and my Venus in Pisces in the 12th House only makes it worse. Help! I’m drowning!

Dear Drowning: did you ever try floating instead? I feel your pain, I really do. I have Pisces on the 7th House cusp and a stack of Neptune problems and I merge too. I lose myself. I begin to live for the other person and become… uninteresting. So I speak from experience. And I think women do this a lot.

My advice is to begin to unfuzz your boundaries. How do you do this? Look to your opposite, earth, Virgo, and remember, if you can, that you are separate from the beloved, that you have a body, literally. Put your feet on the ground. Start with that.

I think Neptune problems are some of the most insidious because we don’t notice what’s happening, and all of a sudden we wake up one day and… we’re gone. The “I”  of “you” has vanished, disappeared. That’s Neptune for ya. An odorless, poisonous gas 😉

One thing you can do is apply this energy in other ways. Did you read my post about Venus in Virgo? Pisces needs to love big. Remember that Jupiter was Pisces original ruler, and Pisces love is so big, so all-encompassing that… loving one person really isn’t enough. I mean, don’t tell them that 😉 but… and this is what I really need to tell you: Love MORE.

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