I admit I write a lot about Virgo. I have Virgo Problems, meaning, I worry too much, and I see the forest for the trees. I mean, the trees and not the forest. See, I get confused because Virgo confuses details with reality. Now, details are a part of reality, but not the big picture, not the whole picture. So this post can apply not just to Virgos but any mega-worrier . It’s probably in your chart somewhere if you feel what I’m saying
And Virgo, they say, isn’t really a nag but just trying to fix what needs fixing. But what if no fix is needed or wanted? Then Virgo may feel hurt, confused, purpose-less. Virgo needs to correct your thinking, correct your speech, not to show where you are wrong, but to understand, to make sense of all the information, to put it in order.
A Virgo lacking order is a Pisces 🙂 Just kidding.
So what about the people who love Virgo and are driven mad by Common Virgo Problems? This is a tough one. I have a Virgo Moon and I live with a Virgo Moon sextile Uranus square Mercury. Now I’m not about to tell you that my Virgo Moon is better than her Virgo Moon but the aspects do make a difference. I hate to debate. She loves to debate. We both can go deep but often, no matter what I say, she will, to my ears, correct it. Make it more precise. What she misunderstands though is that I am a Cancer Sun and I speak from feelings. I am not looking to speak anyone’s truth but my own.
The other day I said to myself, grumbling, “UGH I feel hot!” And from her room, she corrected me: “muggy.” See, she assumed I was giving a treatise on the weather. I was not. I was describing how I felt in the moment: HOT. It did not need correction or refinement.
So what is one to do? Ignore it 🙂 Or bring it up. I’ve done both.
Relationships ah relationships, those ever turning wheels constantly needing negotiation. Oy. I have Jupiter in Libra. I’m supposed to be good at this and maybe I am but… in Virgoland, the mind rules. Service rules too. So remember that even when your pet Virgo is driving you bonkers, underneath that picky exterior is an angel of mercy. This Virgo Moon roommate with outer planets in her 6th House was there for me when no one else was, no one. Virgos go above and beyond, beyond reason. It’s their purpose and their nature.
Today’s take-home: be kind to your Virgo. They deserve your love. And try hugging one, just for fun 😉
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9 thoughts on “Common Virgo Problems And The People Who Love Them”
I have an angry virgo aunt. When i just asked her in a nice way about which supermarket she bought the instant noodles,
she was quick to be mad/sarcastic saying, where do you buy noodles? isn’t it in the supermarket?
I said, yes, but i am asking which one? and she replied to me, whichever supermarket there is – there will be instant noodles.
but i still persevered cause she was not getting my point, I said:
I am asking which supermarket you bought the noodles because maybe the supermarkets have different prices even if it’s the same product.
and she just went silent…
the problem with virgos is that they are too technical and they almost think that they know it all, yet they close their doors and their opinions to some things and some people, thinking that those people are not worthy for them – like they are dumb or whatever. they are so JUDGMENTAL.
——from a Libra who sees it all even her own stupidity.
what about a sun in virgo! they are driving my mom and i insane!
Each sign has their special qualities 😉
this evolving virgo loved this post!
One of the awesome things about Virgo is that they LOVE to evolve 🙂
I have a Virgo moon friend who’s been close since we were kids. a rock-solid supportive best friend, and primo problem solver.
however, she has had her annoying moments:) for example, for several years, it was mandatory (in her mind) to call me back after each phone conversation to analyze our previous conversation! like clockwork, within 10 minutes my phone would ring (she’s also an Aries sun, conjunct 7th….and she is bossy but would be mortified to hear such non-harmonious nonsense, lol).
I do believe she was overly self-critical and haunted by the fear of offending others, and I constantly reassured her that her thinking was on track, and she had the right to be who she was. she was and is a dear, well-meaning person who struggles with worries daily, but she never complains about her problems. it was like she wasn’t allowed to have her feelings considered as legitimate and needed them validated by someone.
I don’t remember her chart off-hand, but her Virgo moon is on the 12th house cusp.
thanks, moonpluto.
wonderful post, again.
Thank you, lona! I love it when you stop by 🙂
“They deserve your love.”
yes, yes, they do!!!