God this transit.
I have it in my natal too so I’m getting that sickening echo.
My Venus is in Leo and Leo needs to be APPRECIATED (as my teacher used to say).
Admired (my roommate used to say).
DESIRED and desired in a big way.
Venus square Saturn = lack of validation.
Venus square Saturn screams WHY DON’T YOU NOTICE ME WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU! LOOK AT ME!
WHY DON’T YOU LOVE ME?
What to do?
You have to let that scream out. Get it out of your body.
Venus square Saturn feels humiliated just by being alive. By walking into a room. Daring to ask for anything.
How dare you ask for love says Venus square Saturn.
As I write this I think to myself:
some Venus square Saturn people will comment here and tell me that they are NOT this way.
And other Venus square Saturn people will feel this as deeply as I do.
This IS a problem that need solving.
One CANNOT continue with an active raging Venus square Saturn and be happy.
It’s anathema to happy.
It MUST be solved and LUCKY YOU FELLOW VENUS SQUARE SATURN PERSON that squares compel us to problem solve. They compel us to strive and fix.
Because it hurts.
I like a little Cartomancy with my astrology and I’ve been exploring the Lenormand lately. Here’s what I drew:
These cards couldn’t be more perfect.
Heart is Love/Venus.
And Whip is whipping the heart. Causing the heart pain. Very Saturn.
Or to take a more positive view of Saturn here: Whip as discipline or holding back, keeping a heart safe. A guardrail.
The discipline needed here is to NOT HATE YOURSELF.
Stork in this spread I am reading as an outcome or answer or advice for this heart bleed: CHANGE.
The stork brings change. Migration.
Things do get better. Things WILL get better. Saturn is time.
As we get older, we grow with this natal aspect.
We may never outgrow it completely, but it gets better.
And another lovely synchronicity: the playing card associated with Stork is the Queen of Hearts 🙂
No escape from love, my dears. Saturn is the Teacher, the Sage, the Wisdom.
And your job is TEACH love. Love for others. Love for self.
You are the one most appropriate for this job, believe it or not.
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