I’m really feeling my Venus Saturn these days. I feel love (Venus) and I feel fear (Saturn). And Saturn direct will sextile my natal Venus in the coming months. And Venus rules my natal Saturn (in Taurus). This is how astrology works: you get the same message once, twice, three times, more. It’s a puzzle and the pieces are scattered all over the floor. And suddenly they have strings, they are puppets. They start to dance into place.
Venus square Saturn is one of my pet topics 🙂 Love and Fear, Love and Work, Love and Restriction, Love and Delay, Love and Limitation, Love and Caution, Love and Death, Love and Time. Beauty… and the Beast. Yes, for this Cancer Sun, Saturn is beastly, harsh, cold, more exacting than the worst Virgo tantrum.
What does one do for Venus Saturn? Here’s one thing you must do: you must vigorously examine all your habits and patterns when you meet someone. Venus Saturn people are masters of self-sabotage. They think they are so ugly, so unworthy, so rejectable, that they reject the other long before the first date is made. This can be conscious or unconscious. Venus is your power to attract, your vibrancy. Saturn is like tape over your mouth, over your entire body. Double-sided tape : And the tape, on both sides, has thorns on it. You cut people so… how do you expect anyone to get close?
Note to self: to be continued
11 thoughts on “Venus Saturn in Real Life”
🙂 thank you Neptune…
(((Hynbr)))
That’s what is so special about you.. You try to find the best in everything… Thank you…
I just would like to know what one can do to keep going… Through all the highs and lows… My friend couldn’t handle it… Somedays I feel like pulling the covers over my head and staying curled up in a ball… How does one muster up the strength to keep going… What made her just self destruct..??? Why is it so hard for some and for others it’s so damn simple…???
Oh okay. You meant in general. My mistake. You ask tough questions. Sometimes there are no (satisfying) answers though. How come two people can have “equally” difficult lives and one will fall and one won’t. I can’t even say “well, so and so has such and such in their chart and that’s why.” I don’t feel comfortable saying that. I think it’s bigger than that i.e. a combination of factors: how someone is raised, how someone’s brain works, the chart, the current life, everything that makes up a person. Personality, tendencies, luck, fate. I’m sure I’m missing some categories but it’s late on the East Coast and my brain is slowing 🙂
One’s particular chart though I do believe can show where you can look for strength.
Bad transits… Bad stuff… Thorns.. Pain… Loneliness… How do you find the strength to keep going…??? I just found out that a friend from school overdosed on drugs and alcohol because her life spiralled out of control… Why is it so hard to pull out from some of that … Why is it some of us can and some of us… Well.. Can’t…
Don’t worry about me, Hnybr 🙂 I like to write about hard aspects
you just keep writing, moonpluto and enough peeps’ll figure out venus/saturn through your words and there’ll be no more of this ridiculous lonely business for very long!!!!
shucks everybody’s being so sweet today 🙂
Venus Saturn is a BEAR. A bear of an aspect. Oof!
What I find really interesting is that you can spot those double sided tape people with the thorns sticking out a mile away. And there is something sticky or thorny that is attractive about them. It probably takes one to know one.
interesting observation, neptunetrinemoon. i think you are correct abt that