When you have sex at this age — and I mean *my age* i.e. middle-age, you’re making love to someone’s life, someone’s life story, it’s on their skin, in their cells, their blood, it’s their history, everything they are, hair fibers, fingernails, favorite food, their past lovers, past pain, their losses, failures, what they dream of, and all the good stuff too. Yeah, the good stuff. Everything that’s inside them.
You take all of that inside you, or you enter it. Depending on your um position.
And the only one for me is the one who understands this.
Sex = depth for me. I have an emotional Mars in Cancer, pretty well-aspected, including a square to Jupiter, and I think I’m more Marsy than Venus-y although as I get older I am *trying* to work on my Venus, my yinnny yin yin BUT–
With Uranus in Aries heading to my 8th House? Sex and death become one, my love — that old 8th house keyword: transformation. Change. The Death Card in the Tarot.
Sudden (Uranus) and surprising (Uranus) change (Uranus square Pluto) leading to more change.
Where is Uranus transiting in your chart?