Jealousy In The Natal Chart (Part ?)

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Tom Cruise has Venus in Leo

I’m sure I’ve written about this before but am too lazy (we’re having a heatwave in NYC!) to look up my own blog categories and tags. And, as well, this topic is fitting for the beginning of Leo Season. Why? Because Leo needs the appreciation, admiration, and attention that I wrote about in my previous post.

And Venus in Leo needs to be The Only One. Needs. To Be. The Only. ONE.

Which can present a challenge if Venus in Leo is with, say, a more randy zodiacal type, like, say a dude (or dudette) with a stable. You know those types, right? They only or mainly have friends of the opposite sex. Maybe they’ve slept with half of them Or not.

Venus in Leo needs to be the Queen. Venus in Leo IS the Queen. And if the partner is too… impatient or uninterested in reassuring the Queen? She will sulk and roar and sulk and roar and generally start looking unattractive. And then, in a fit of sulking and roaring she could do something she’ll regret. Or not. She’ll leave. And that would suck.

Now, I have been accused, yes accused, of taking a ball and running with it. But in such moments I have said to the accuser: Hey! If the situation were reversed? Maybe you’d feel threatened too. I, after all, am The Queen. But what kind of Queen is so damn uncertain of her kingdom? One with a square to Saturn, that’s who!

Ah insecurity. It’s not pretty, is it? And I do my best, I swear, but see, there’s this crown and it’s afixed to my skull and I can’t quite remove it, I have trouble humbling myself. No. Wait. It’s that I lack faith. At times. I’m sorry.

You know what? It feels good to write one of these messy emotional posts like I used to write. Lately I’ve been writing more general things with less of the personal but ahhhh this is like scratching an itch. In public. Feels good.

So let us briefly explore Jealousy in the Natal Chart. Scorpio? Check. Taurus? Double check. Yes, I think the fixed signs are the most jealous with Cancer not far behind for the Cardinals. Scorpio and Taurus, they want to OWN you, possess you, and you must forsake all others. Now, you could also run into a jealous Aquarian but it’s likely something else in their chart, a heavy Pluto for example, making them less free-thinking.

And speaking of thinking, Aquarius (or Venus in Aquarius) can think through these dark emotions, like jealousy, instead of drowning in them. Not so easy for Scorpio or Taurus although I have known Scorpios who have claimed not to have a jealous streak. Maybe they call it something else in Scorpioland, like, MINE.

Here’s some advice though for you NON-Jealous types: if you fall for a jealous type just know that… it will come up. If you fall for a very Plutonion Cancerian babe, this Β tendency will not disappear over night. It can be worked with. It can be soothed. It can be reassured. There is hope! And, maybe, secretly, you know it feeds you, even as it aggravates you. You know the jealous one wants you, needs you, but sometimes it comes out in a slightly dark and twisty way.

Pluto is always Pluto. She doesn’t wake up one day and become Jupiter. Know this, soothe your lover, and all will be well. Really. I swear. Really. And if she’s really getting on your nerves? Go make a sandwich πŸ™‚

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