I was talking to a client this morning and this topic came up. And it made me think about my own life. Because often the people we meet reflect back to us what we need to pay attention to.
What is saying no? Saying no is setting a boundary. NO matter who is sweet talking you, that you can hear what is actually going on. Yes, it is okay to HEAR what is actually going on and to say no IF you want to say no. Or to say YES if you want to say yes. And how you do this incredibly brave task is by KNOWING how you actually feel. Admitting to yourself how you feel.
Why is this issue on my mind? Not just the phone call I had this morning but PLUTO OPPOSING MY SUN and Uranus squaring it. People may not think of me as a pushover. Or maybe they do, not sure. Cancer Sun, Virgo Moon, Venus in the 12th. This is a NICE person. But I’ll tell you this, my patience has worn thin. If people want a place in my life, professionally or personally, it’s going to be a lot different than before. No apologies. It’s like this: you can come up to MY LEVEL or you can go. Does that sound like Pluto? For better or worse, perhaps 🙂
Maybe my passion is coming back. Mars is direct now. Yeah. I think that’s it. My passion. Which died. Is coming back. It’s coming through in my writing. I know you guys can tell that. I feel better writing here lately. And enjoying the other blog too. But it’s like a friend I haven’t seen in a long time. Is that… you? You wanna hang out? I feel like I could take an axe to everything that still stands. Maybe that girl in my chat room was onto something. The one who said to burn it all to the ground. That I COULD burn it all to the ground. Sound like Uranus Pluto to you? Someone once told me I was made of passion and angst. I’d say that description was pretty accurate. The changes are coming. I can feel it as I type this. Acceptance is the first step 🙂 let the tears flow.
Mid-degree Cardinal signs (Libra, Aries, Cancer, Capricorn) I know you hear me.
Thing is this, I’ve had THOSE transits. Where I had no choice. The transits did the destroying. I feel like I have more agency now. I know how to choose. Or I’m learning how. Which returns us to the topic at the start of this blog post. Saying no is setting a boundary. Saying no is freedom. But if your entire life is comprised of setting boundaries, then it’s time to pick up the axe. When you notice that gulf between what is and what you want.
Sometimes, when I can’t find the words, only music will do, and I seek out A VOICE. Here is my favorite Aquarian. And I didn’t realize before how perfectly this song fits these transits 🙂