Oh Virgo, I’m sorry to hear that. Virgo is famous for criticizing self first and then turning a critical eye on everyone else. My suggestion? Self-love. Yeah, you know what I’m sayin’ 😉
Virgo is earth. Begin with the body.
Do you love your body? I mean really love your body?
Venus is your love nature. Venus is beauty and grace and charm so do yourself a favor and stop picking on yourself this minute. Self-hatred is not pretty (Venus) except to those who will wipe their feet on your (un)welcome mat.
How? How do you do this? Virgo needs to fix. So work on fixing your endless drive to self-critique and turn that energy elsewhere. World peace. World hunger. What? Not an Aquarian?
Virgo can’t see outside its own head, its own thinking. Take a cue from your opposite, from the Pisces, and dream a little dream, drink a little drink 😉 And look to who squares you: Gemini is too busy to worry. And Sagittarius has already moved on.
And apply this to your love life. Next time you got a dude hooked, ask your self: Self, what would Pisces do? And Gemini and Sagittarius. Virgo looks for proof. Virgo discerns. It takes what it needs, it takes what makes sense, and leaves the rest. Try it!
And you know what else? Fear less.
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4 thoughts on “Dear Moon Pluto: My Venus Is In Virgo And I Hate Myself”
Yes, I have venus in virgo in the last house ( 12 th house ). I think about people and want to help them, do charitable work, etc. This is not necessary something venus in aquarius do, in fact they think a lot about that, while virgo is quite opposite in my opinion. I don’t want to think a lot, I just want to take action, solve the problem ( probably because of my sun in the 1 st house too ) help people to achieve their goals, etc.
I’m sorry I didn’t see this comment sooner! Was sitting in my spam folder 🙁
Well, I have venus in virgo and I guess I can be pretty thankful of the built-in reminder of the pisces/sag/gemini energy via my natal grand cross!! I definitely get the venus virgo perfectionist thing but luckily I have opposing jupiter in pisces to keep me in check…or rather the other way around;)
Hi Autumn! I’m glad you aren’t as trapped as our poor letter-writer 🙂 Natal Grand Cross oy that is a reminder indeed…