I admit I write a lot about Virgo. I have Virgo Problems, meaning, I worry too much, and I see the forest for the trees. I mean, the trees and not the forest. See, I get confused because Virgo confuses details with reality. Now, details are a part of reality, but not the big picture, not the whole picture. So this post can apply not just to Virgos but any mega-worrier . It’s probably in your chart somewhere if you feel what I’m saying
And Virgo, they say, isn’t really a nag but just trying to fix what needs fixing. But what if no fix is needed or wanted? Then Virgo may feel hurt, confused, purpose-less. Virgo needs to correct your thinking, correct your speech, not to show where you are wrong, but to understand, to make sense of all the information, to put it in order.
A Virgo lacking order is a Pisces 🙂 Just kidding.
So what about the people who love Virgo and are driven mad by Common Virgo Problems? This is a tough one. I have a Virgo Moon and I live with a Virgo Moon sextile Uranus square Mercury. Now I’m not about to tell you that my Virgo Moon is better than her Virgo Moon but the aspects do make a difference. I hate to debate. She loves to debate. We both can go deep but often, no matter what I say, she will, to my ears, correct it. Make it more precise. What she misunderstands though is that I am a Cancer Sun and I speak from feelings. I am not looking to speak anyone’s truth but my own.
The other day I said to myself, grumbling, “UGH I feel hot!” And from her room, she corrected me: “muggy.” See, she assumed I was giving a treatise on the weather. I was not. I was describing how I felt in the moment: HOT. It did not need correction or refinement.
So what is one to do? Ignore it 🙂 Or bring it up. I’ve done both.
Relationships ah relationships, those ever turning wheels constantly needing negotiation. Oy. I have Jupiter in Libra. I’m supposed to be good at this and maybe I am but… in Virgoland, the mind rules. Service rules too. So remember that even when your pet Virgo is driving you bonkers, underneath that picky exterior is an angel of mercy. This Virgo Moon roommate with outer planets in her 6th House was there for me when no one else was, no one. Virgos go above and beyond, beyond reason. It’s their purpose and their nature.
Today’s take-home: be kind to your Virgo. They deserve your love. And try hugging one, just for fun 😉
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