-+*Please subscribe to the NEWSLETTER here. It’s free. I try to put one out once a week and try not to duplicate content too much! So I’m fond of saying that rarely do readers (of various kinds, over the years) predict love accurately for ME and yet I’ve often said […]
Love and Sex
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-+*The first part of this blog post is from my Facebook… So. Dating. I am going to be talking about this, blogging about this. As my 2015 Solar Return year winds down – and I consider dating again – everything I’ve learned up to this point… about Venus square Saturn… […]
-+*Now THAT was a spectacular fire (I thought to myself) when we said goodbye. I said goodbye to someone. It wasn’t a real goodbye though. It was a brief goodbye. A fake. This is a personal tale yes. I know you like the personal stuff. And all morning I was […]
-+*I realize this needs to be a series of blog posts. Was talking to a young woman today – with Aquarius Rising. I mention this because our next New Moon is in Aquarius and I suggested a ritual for her – set intentions – intend to dispose of shame around […]
-+*I left New York because my Root Chakra fell apart. It’s as simple and as complex as that. I left New York. Not everyone can say that. Not everybody leaves. My transits not only made it possible, they made it inevitable. We don’t want our Chakras tight and tough. We […]
-+*Realizing that many problems in relationships (when relationships go wrong) are ENERGY problems – when the energy goes out of balance. When one person gives theirs and the other one only receives it and/or restricts their own. Often the man will chase – giving the woman his energy (a “typical” […]
-+*I must blog about this, I thought to myself, as I finished a Tarot reading with a long-time client. She’s in a new relationship and it’s like she’s been waiting for him for years. Since I’ve known her. Through various break-ups and make-ups. Her Magician. Finally he is here and […]
-+*I don’t know if men have this problem. I’m not a man. I can’t and won’t speak for them. Not today anyway 😉 But I can speak as ME. As a woman, THIS woman, in a relationship. To be free of this terrible longing and yet to remain IN relationship. […]
-+*I feel like giving promotion to beautiful things I find on Etsy or elsewhere. In the spirit of North Node in Libra perhaps 🙂 partnership. Fair exchange. Yesterday I was looking around and discovered these. They will look beautiful on my altar. And all the way from Jerusalem. I love […]
-+*Marriage is about finding someone’s hiding places. And not letting them hide there anymore. But also not being so controlling that… you can’t let them have their solitude. You have to let them have their solitude. Rilke wrote about this: two solitudes protect and greet each other. That is love […]
-+*I can’t always contain what I feel. Spent half the day freaking out about identity theft. Apparently I fell for an Internet “scam.” My husband, the logical optimistic Sagittarius thinks all will be well but I spent a few hours in tizzy land. Low blood sugar. I had been cleaning […]
-+*I had my physical therapy just now. Back home went to lay down and started to drift. Sometimes the therapy relaxes me. Sometimes just makes me tired. I try to keep my schedule light on such days. Listening to my favorite music for such moments, letting thoughts land wherever: past, […]
-+*My fiance and I are a couple like any other. We fight sometimes. And sometimes I genuinely feel it all comes back to the chart, the synastry. ALL ROADS LEAD! And yet I can feel myself searching searching searching for some mystical reason WHY this or that altercation happens. By […]
-+*I am going to find the answer to this question today. At least an answer that will satisfy me. Because I am convinced that it is NOT Venus. Sure, Venus rules the stuff we like and value, are attracted to, the “capacity for enjoyment” and so on. But LOVE? Neptune […]
-+*Relationships are supposed to make your life better, easier. I believe this. But your (and my) Venus situation has something to say about how easy this is or will be for you. What the challenges are and so on. And where to look for the light. My 12th House Venus […]
-+*On the first day of class, I wrote about wanting to go deep with Venus and make discoveries that excite me — partly from rereading the “cookbooks” and rereading the deep astrology writers so that my own thoughts have more substance. Caroline Casey writes about honoring Venus and it got […]
-+*We come to sex with so much history, pain and pleasure. How to sort through the muck and the past to figure out what we want, including how to please someone else. Rewrite the script. Even for long-time couples, this can be an issue. I was hanging out in my […]
-+*RELATIONSHIPS!!!! Relationships are on my mind. I’m compelled to use all caps again and YES I AM YELLING WHEN I DO THIS. 🙂 Relationships bring up issues we didn’t even KNOW were issues because BEFORE we were looking in the mirror and NOW we are looking at another person and […]
-+*Can a Cancer Sun find happiness with a Sagittarius Sun? I’m an introvert. Needs solitude. Needs time and space to process feelings. Need acceptance of WHO I AM, especially these qualities. Can’t be around someone who wants to force me out of my shell on those “interior days” and gosh […]
-+*Tonight my boyfriend asked me what would make me happy and I always have trouble with this question. Let him be the happy one. Let me stick my hands in some other body. Having him here has changed my life and makes me happy but when he asked me that […]
-+*Sometimes I want people (myself?) to forget the chart. But is it possible to forget the chart? If you know that your lover or wannabe lover has Venus in… whatever how do you put that aside and see the person without bias. Is it possible? Is it worth it? Won’t […]
-+*Men need their dreams. Women need their dreams too. Often their dreams are different. And sometimes they are the same. And that is magic. I don’t mean to sound heterosexist but I am dating a man (at this time). We can use other language. Beloved no. 1 and Beloved no. […]